It is you creating a pathway for women to be comfortable with their desire to have sex with you as fast as possible without judgment. Societal Programming trains women to be sweet and polite to strangers.This is one of the very rare times Societal Programming actually works in your favor. A lot of younger guys are very ashamed that they are virgins, or have only had sex with three women or whatever.Again, women are horny as hell and crave sex badly.Almost never is the past sexual experience of the man a make-or-break issue for a woman. So I compounded the lie by telling another lie (this is one of the many reasons I don’t lie to women; lies necessitate other lies) and told her that I “hadn’t had sex for a year”.Before Match and Ok Cupid, older singles had to find potential dates through work, friends, and those (awful) singles’ cruises.Since many people’s social circles shrink as they get older, dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s used to be damn near impossible.
Between societal messages of storybook romances and a seemingly never ending stream of options, it makes sense.There were some dating books back then, but they were pretty terrible.Not that I read very many, but the ones I remember taking a look at were dreadfully bad.They were either variations of the “take her out to dinner and kiss her ass” variety (like that will get you laid fast) or the “lie to her and tell her you’re a doctor” variety (which was only good if you want one night stands…lying during the seduction phase is useless if you desire relationships or any other form of recurring sex). For most of my teenage and early adult years, I was under the impression that if I somehow “got” a woman to kiss me or have sex with me, I was somehow convincing her or tricking her into doing something she didn’t want to do.So in my early 20s, I was the typical beta stumbling around in the dark, trying to do what felt right (which is almost always wrong when it comes to women), not getting laid very much beyond when I got lucky. Only much later in life did I discover it’s actually the exact opposite.Moreover, some women actually prefer less experienced guys, because they think (rightly or wrongly) that they’re not “players”. In my early twenties as a virgin beta male, I lied to the woman I lost my virginity to and told her I had sex with “ten women” already. This turned her right back on again, and we had sex, and I lost my V-card. I was so ashamed about what I did that it took me many years to actually come clean and tell her she had been my first. If you’re not that experienced, don’t pretend to women that you’re more experienced than you are.