I don't feel pressure in that sense, but I do fear that my appearance and my "game" (not that either are working for me presently) will fade as I get older.
It's fun being one of the few guys in my group of friends who hasn't yet found love, but at the same time I wonder what is wrong with me..I'm trying to decide if time is running out.
Seems like as time goes by, makeup makes like the earth and erodes and changes with weathering.
There is nothing more ghastly than makeup run amuck in the morning after spending the night together. Women tell me that they feel more pressure to settle down because they can't have children as easily past a certain age.
I don't know about you, but all of that is pretty heavy.
I think the old adage "Girls mature faster than boys" comes into play here.
I try not to make a girl walk too much if she's in heels. The sea is very romantic, but I would be too nervous the entire time. While walking in the ocean I've stepped on some unidentified crustaceous creatures and we've both scuttled along away from one another in fear. Then, I get really tender and give all of my attention to this girl who thought she had no chance.
Also, I've seen girls wear pearls and a nice blouse to trashy outdoor drinking events, or heels to sporting events. We Check Out Other Women (Even if We're in Relationships) Sorry, but we notice a hot girl any time any place.
It's nice to hear nothing but your lover's breath against the backdrop of the evening or early morning. It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract me) in the background.Holding someone close in bed also makes you feel very secure with one another and the relationship. Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything.You can be making a total mistake, but as long as you're confident, it will turn out okay.This may explain why we are so clueless at what we are doing in bed, but we act like we know. Some people turn into a completely different person when they are drunk.Last thing I need is to give this girl some material for a girls' night conversation. I have said something to a girl one day that she laughs at, but then a week later she bites my head off when I say the same thing.